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Self worth. Self Awareness. Self Love.

Highly Effective Life Coaching & Dating Coaching Services

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Hi, I'm Ashlea. 

I'm a digital creator and dating/life coach with a strong following on Instagram, TikTok and Facebook. I offer dating advice, life tips and more through my social media accounts and coaching services. My aim is to help others love themselves and find true self-worth as well as as true love. Modern dating is challenging, and I help create a roadmap to your most fulfilling experience, both in and out of relationships. 

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Testimonials

Ashlea was like a big sister, coach & therapist all rolled into one. Very thoughtful and provided honest feedback that really helps you grow & move forward as a better person & partner in relationships. I highly recommend booking a call with her 10/10!

After our discovery call, I had high hopes for a felt sense of impact after a call with Ashlea. Finishing our first session- I can say without a doubt that it exceeded even those already high hopes. What I appreciated most about our session was how clearly prepared Ashlea was to dive right into the heart of what mattered most to me. She showed up with a clear working knowledge and intentional approach towards helping me further realize and address limiting beliefs and patterns I've been struggling to break free from for years. With a mixture of kindness, compassion and a dash of humor, she helped me see myself clearer and gave me clear and intentional steps towards progress in my life. I've scheduled myself for 12 sessions with her- but I could totally see myself working with her far beyond that. Thanks so much, Ashlea- I'm grateful to be here!

Ashlea has excellent energy and was very easy to connect with and provide great advice to life situations

After following Ashlea’s content for some time, I felt compelled to schedule an emergency session to gain clarity on my current relationship. As a very private person who rarely discusses personal matters or seeks advice from others, this was a significant step for me. Ashlea responded quickly and was incredibly accommodating in arranging an emergency appointment. During our session, she provided valuable insight into the relationship dynamics I’m currently navigating and helped me better understand both the situation and myself. Her guidance was thoughtful, honest, and practical. The session gave me a great deal of clarity and highlighted areas of personal growth that I can continue to work on. I left feeling more informed, confident, and equipped to move forward. I will definitely be booking additional sessions with Ashlea and highly recommend her to anyone seeking relationship guidance and personal development support.

I had my first session with Ashlea during one of the most difficult periods of my life, and I left feeling more understood, hopeful, and at peace than I have in months. What impressed me most was her ability to combine deep empathy with genuine insight. She didn’t just listen to my story, she shared parts of her own journey in a way that helped me understand my situation from an entirely different perspective. Rather than offering generic advice, she helped me make sense of patterns, behaviors, and dynamics that had been weighing heavily on me. Ashlea has a unique gift for helping people feel seen without judgment. She created a space where I could be completely honest about what I was experiencing, and she met that honesty with compassion, wisdom, and practical guidance. One of the most valuable takeaways from our session was her emphasis on transparency, communication, self-worth, and the importance of letting go of what we cannot control. She helped me reframe things I had been carrying for a long time and gave me a perspective that immediately brought me a sense of calm and acceptance. I’ve worked with coaches, therapists, and professionals in the past, and it’s rare to find someone who can connect personal experience, emotional intelligence, and actionable guidance as effectively as Ashlea does. After just one session, I booked another. That’s probably the strongest recommendation I can give. If you’re struggling through a difficult relationship, life transition, or simply trying to better understand yourself and your patterns, I highly recommend working with Ashlea. I’m grateful our paths crossed, and I’m genuinely looking forward to continuing the work.

She was fantastic!!!! Direct and sharp!

Ashlea has excellent energy and was very easy to connect with and provide great advice to life situations

I would highly recommend Ashlea. Consultants, Counselors and Therapists are a dime a dozen but few perfect their craft. Ashlea has a professional, kind, intelligent and empathetic approach while being Real. She's amazing and you will be hard pressed to find better.

I can't recommend this coaching enough. The session gave me genuine clarity, practical tools, and a new perspective on relationships and dating. It was insightful, supportive, and absolutely worth it.

Ashlea is awesome, she has street smarts like no other and really understands the game and the female mindset!

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